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what will u do if your in this situation .... 無名 Apr 7th, 10, 08:59 AM #1
i'll make it simple..

A guy met C girl , but C girl has B guy. Since they met, A starting to like C more and more but A already knows that C has a B . past few mths A and C kept smsing, calling each other at night. A and C will colleague.
From time to time, C will tell A that she's not worth it, both should maintain a distance etc etc. but the next day everything will be back to normal ( as in smsing, having dinner tgt, going back home etc)
This B doesnt live/work here. From what C told A, they always quarrels when they see each other. C usually will go back to do some earrands. They been tgt for quite a no. of yrs.

So, if ur A, what will u do ?


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Del_CtrlnoAlt Apr 7th, 10, 09:05 AM #2
hmm, be an Asshole, reBoot.
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9VARZ Apr 7th, 10, 09:06 AM #3
Sounds like the classic "uni-boy meets uni-girl who has a defenceless bf in army" case.

Common odds against the poor army boy: 10/1
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Del_CtrlnoAlt Apr 7th, 10, 09:11 AM #4
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Sounds like the classic "uni-boy meets uni-girl who has a defenceless bf in army" case.

Common odds against the poor army boy: 10/1


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無名 Apr 7th, 10, 09:14 AM #5
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hmm, be an Asshole, reBoot.
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reminiscent Apr 7th, 10, 09:17 AM #6
A should ask C "ASGM" or "APPM".

Seriously ... If A likes C ... then just go for it. If A is hesitating, his fear > love for C.
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Del_CtrlnoAlt Apr 7th, 10, 09:18 AM #7
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reboot
ya... Cos if A is u... then B lan lan kena Boot lor... C will Come over here!
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無名 Apr 7th, 10, 09:20 AM #8
A have this in mind; never surrender. But C is afraid of liking A cos C thinks it is not right..



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無名 Apr 7th, 10, 09:21 AM #9
Will be continue .. after i get back from work, ttygl.



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Ar3s Apr 7th, 10, 09:22 AM #10
Firstly it should be Guy A. A guy is just well correct grammar so it was confusing.

Tell C she is worth it and keep showing her what a real relationship worth fighting for is like. Time together between C-B (oops) would make her think but the more great memories "A" builds with C will always be rewarding to "A".
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A-C sounds better than B-C but D-C always seems the coolest. (pun intended)
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travirjir Apr 7th, 10, 09:24 AM #11
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A have this in mind; never surrender. But C is afraid of liking A cos C thinks it is not right..
when it comes to matter of the heart cannot be afraid. u'll live to regret it. and also if C doesn't give A a chance, how does C know its not right. What she thinks might not be right.

The heart wants what the heart wants.
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9VARZ Apr 7th, 10, 09:25 AM #12
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Firstly it should be Guy A. A guy is just well correct grammar so it was confusing.

Tell C she is worth it and keep showing her what a real relationship worth fighting for is like. Time together between C-B (oops) would make her think but the more great memories "A" builds with C will always be rewarding to "A".
Side note:
A-C sounds better than B-C but D-C always seems the coolest. (pun intended)
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Del_CtrlnoAlt Apr 7th, 10, 09:29 AM #13
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when it comes to matter of the heart cannot be afraid. u'll live to regret it. and also if C doesn't give A a chance, how does C know its not right. What she thinks might not be right.

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booest Apr 7th, 10, 09:36 AM #14
In your life you cannot be Mr NICE Guy all the time.

but i would also think is it because she is lonely in singapore that she is in contact with you more then her current bf?

Is she worth it? In the same company.. in the event things do not work out.. you get more shit since you are the guy that "broke" THEM up.



Personally, I feel just get to know her more on a LEVEL basis.....

Level basis....means
- be level headed and "forget" about her at least for now
- maintain a good friendship.. let her come to you. Not the other way.
- try to find your own answer if she is worth it... give youself 6months.
- Find out all the hidden agenda if any.

The ONLY reason for them to not be in good terms is probably the LONG DISTANCE relationship.... its normal. When she goes back for holiday, they are ok again....
Soif she just keep giving excuse not to go home.. it is a good sign. Else, stop being a spare tyre -_-"

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satanicWorshiper Apr 7th, 10, 10:03 AM #15
its your choice....

make your call...

if she's the one...go for it...

dont give shit on what other think, and its your life time happiness ...

you only live once...
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