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(News) Can our youngsters weather storms? MinMin Mar 6th, 08, 11:31 AM #1 (permalink)
Can our youngsters weather storms?

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HE is worried about Singapore's future.

Especially with the manner in which our children are being raised.

Will Singaporeans be resilient enough to face the challenges ahead?

These questions, raised by Dr Ong Seh Hong in Parliament yesterday, were prompted by a report in The New Paper last week.

During the parliamentary sitting, the Member of Parliament of Marine Parade GRC whipped out a copy of The New Paper's report, 'Teacher, how to eat this?' (28 Feb), before proceeding with his speech.

The report had pointed out that when food was rationed to commemorate Total Defence Day on 15 Feb, some students did not know how to eat a sweet potato.

The electricity was cut off in some classroom blocks, and the lack of lights and air-conditioning, as well as the room- temperature water dispensed from the water cooler left some students grumbling.

Speaking in Mandarin, Dr Ong said in Parliament: 'I worry if we have been overly protective of our younger generation.

'LITTLE FLOWER BUDS'

'Are they little flower buds in a greenhouse, unable to weather a storm when it comes?'

Dr Ong, 46, later told The New Paper that he was not shocked by the report, but he would be worried if this is the prevalent mindset of the young.

The father of three children aged 15, 11 and 7 said: 'Maybe my children would also respond the same way.

'Given a choice, nobody likes to experience hardship. But we must have the resilience and capabilities to deal with adversities and difficulties when they arise.'

In Parliament, Dr Ong urged the Government, members of society and parents to tackle this problem together.

He said the recent Edison Chen sex scandal could well reflect some of the attitudes and values of today's young adults.

He further noted that parents should not be so concerned over their children's schoolwork, to the extent of exempting them from household chores to free up time for studies.

Asked about his own children, Dr Ong said: 'They have to do some household chores even though we have a domestic helper.

'We make them take public transport.'

Dr Ong told The New Paper that he has seen young men and women in countries such as China, India and Vietnam who are highly motivated and strong-willed.

He acknowledged that China, too, has her own set of problems when it comes to spoilt children and one-child policies.

IMPORTANT TASKS

Education Minister Tharman Shanmugaratnam, in response to Dr Ong's point in Parliament, said: 'Character building and moral development are important tasks in education.'

The School Excellence Model gives a framework to help schools access how well they have developed strength of character, teamwork and leadership among students.

As for Dr Ong's point on how well Singapore youths stand in terms of character development compared to those in other countries, Senior Parliamentary Secretary for Education Masagos Zulkifli said there has been no detailed study done in this area.

However, Mr Masagos said: 'Through our interactions with (other) education ministries... we have seen that this is indeed a high priority area and many countries place great emphasis on this.'

And Singapore hopes to learn from their 'best practices', he said.

On the whole, Dr Ong believes that most Singaporean youths are sensible and would rise to the occasion.

On his part as a parent, he said: 'My wife and I try our best not to indulge our children. For example, they don't have an Xbox or PlayStation. They share a Nintendo DS and they have access to it only during weekends and holidays.'

Link:- http://newpaper.asia1.com.sg/news/st...58349,00.html?

 
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ahhao81 Mar 6th, 08, 11:56 AM #2 (permalink)
no need to ask.. the answer is no..

nowadays parents are too overprotective..
 
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XTimX Mar 6th, 08, 12:19 PM #3 (permalink)
not all leh...my parents don't care whether I die or not bills everything have to pay myself , PC everything fixed , built ...
 
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kyouta Mar 6th, 08, 12:35 PM #4 (permalink)
how to learn to weather storm when all your storm-weathering experiences are given to FTs???????
 
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dr_disciple Mar 6th, 08, 12:45 PM #5 (permalink)
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PinGer Mar 6th, 08, 01:05 PM #6 (permalink)
what can i say? There was once i was packing flour and 2 kids walk by around 7 to 10 yrs old.. They ask me what i was doing, I told them I'm packing flour. They insisted that it was heroin and said that flour dont look like that. Flour is noodles and bread...........
 
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MinMin Mar 6th, 08, 01:13 PM #7 (permalink)
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what can i say? There was once i was packing flour and 2 kids walk by around 7 to 10 yrs old.. They ask me what i was doing, I told them I'm packing flour. They insisted that it was heroin and said that flour dont look like that. Flour is noodles and bread...........
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c0oL Mar 6th, 08, 01:51 PM #8 (permalink)
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what can i say? There was once i was packing flour and 2 kids walk by around 7 to 10 yrs old.. They ask me what i was doing, I told them I'm packing flour. They insisted that it was heroin and said that flour dont look like that. Flour is noodles and bread...........
Should have went along with their game & sold them as heroin.
Might be able to make a quick buck or two.

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raysusan Mar 6th, 08, 02:00 PM #9 (permalink)
i come across kids tell me they dont know how to go to lesson location if parents dont send them by car
so they rather skip the class...
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longsiew Mar 6th, 08, 03:56 PM #10 (permalink)
Er....I tho Education system in Sg is world number 1??

How come young boy or girl does not know how does the flour looks like?? In the book I can see so many pic ma....Got drawing such as chicken, duck and so on.......

But when go to Dairy Farm they don't know which is cow and which is goat.........hahhahahha.............

Not need to worry...As long as yr English is tok kong u can survive in Sg, the rest not important..
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amduser Mar 6th, 08, 04:03 PM #11 (permalink)
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On his part as a parent, he said: 'My wife and I try our best not to indulge our children. For example, they don't have an Xbox or PlayStation. They share a Nintendo DS and they have access to it only during weekends and holidays.'
I wonder how he manages to connect this situation to the main topic.
 
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moneygod Mar 6th, 08, 04:35 PM #12 (permalink)
I will buy my kid a PS4 (when it comes out) but not buy him any games. If he want, he will have to learn how crack it, download games off the net and play bootlegs.
Why so serious?
 
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KenMcGormick Mar 6th, 08, 04:42 PM #13 (permalink)
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not all leh...my parents don't care whether I die or not bills everything have to pay myself , PC everything fixed , built ...
on top of that... i need to borrow money from bank to study for my uni and also have to pay parents' tax for any income i earn
 
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KenMcGormick Mar 6th, 08, 04:44 PM #14 (permalink)
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what can i say? There was once i was packing flour and 2 kids walk by around 7 to 10 yrs old.. They ask me what i was doing, I told them I'm packing flour. They insisted that it was heroin and said that flour dont look like that. Flour is noodles and bread...........
lol... They know what is heroin... but do they know the chemical formula for heroin... sigh smart alecs...
 
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KenMcGormick Mar 6th, 08, 04:46 PM #15 (permalink)
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I wonder how he manages to connect this situation to the main topic.
Children who dun play Xbox and Playstation and who shares a Nintendo DS on weekends can weather storms?
 
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